Anonymous - i really like this guy and he says he says that he's falling for me.. he's 22 and i'm 16 but i told him i was 18.. we live in different countries but he plans on living here for a while and he wants to pay my trip to go visit him.. i feel bad and want to tell him the truth but i'm scared of the consequences, he'll might not talk to me again. I was planning on waiting until I see him personally to tell him since he does have the right to know. what do you think? thanks so much! :)
i hope you’ve met him already and this isn’t one of those cyber-meeting things cos they really aren’t safe. you have to tell him. you can’t maintain a relationship with a lie, nonetheless start a relationship with one. especially when it’s such a obvious lie, he’s gonna find out sooner or later if you don’t tell him. it’s better for you to tell him the truth rather than him finding out himself, that would make things worse x
